dry spells [08 Dec 2009|08:48pm] sextips [dolledupdolly] [ mood | horny ] [ music | David Rush | Shooting Star (Party Rock Remix) ] In the middle of eating dinner tonight, I realised I was eating because I was horny and couldn't have sex. Ahahaha. Then I thought about it some more, and realised that I've been oversleeping, eating more than usual, moping, and generally feeling yucky because I'm sexually frustrated. I haven't had sex in three months (it was the best. sex. EVER.) and I can usually deal with the frustration if I don't have sex for a while (there were two seperate years where I didn't have any kind of sexual intimacy with anyone - not even a kiss) but lately I've wanted to tear my bed sheets to smithereens. How long can you go without sex for before you feel like shriveling up and dying? What are your coping methods (aside from wanking) when you're single/away from your SO/you don't know how long it will be before you have sex again? 37 French Kiss | Frenching?

[07 Dec 2009|09:50pm] sextips [memoirsofsunny] Hi, so my boyfriend and I are running out of ideas for sexual play. We've tried: -anal -rape fantasy -him controlling me [slapping, spanking, dirty talk, etc] -me being a stripper -etc We're really looking for a really new kink to try out. I think we're eventually going to try a threesome, and public sex. But we won't be trying anything in his back door. I looked in the mammaries [heh] but I didn't really see anything helpful. Any ideas? 45 French Kiss | Frenching?

MORNING SEX. [06 Dec 2009|03:21pm] sextips [67riot] [ mood | giggly ] So I would think that most of you agree with the fact that a.m. sexy time ROCKS. Lately though(past few months), thats ALL the bf wants to do. If I get sex at all, its always right when i'm waking up, which is usually reaaally early. I've had sex at night/afternoon mabye once or twice in the past month and i'm not happy about it! We used to do it every single night. I love morning sex dont get me wrong, but its usually really passive and each of us have 1 goal: getting ourselves off. No foreplay, no kissing, just straight up p in vagEEE! I miss getting frisky at night. I'm almost ALWAYS horny right before going to sleep. I mean were both half naked snuggled up to eachother how can i not??? I miss all the drawn-out foreplay and sex toys and just getting more INTO it, yknow? So i'm just wondering, how can i get him to be in the mood at night again? I come onto him and hint that I want it, but he either doesnt get it or is ignoring me. I would just like some advice to spice up the nightime again. Has this happened to anyone else? and i know i know, i should TALK to him about it. I just feel like talking about it makes the actual sex afterward really awkward... thxx 27 French Kiss | Frenching?

preparing for sex [03 Dec 2009|09:55pm] sextips [kristin20q] hey sextips, i'm in need of some advice. basically, i am a female virgin in my early 20s and i am ready for sex. i haven't done it yet because i haven't had any real boyfriends and i didn't want to lose it so just anyone. while i don't have a bf at the moment, i've been meeting a lot of great guys and could potentially turn into something serious. which brings me to my question: how can a virgin prepare for sex? 1. someone recommended i get on birth control. i think this is a good idea because i don't want to have kids any time soon and i don't want to be anxious about the condom breaking during sex. 2. someone else suggested that i "practice" with a vibrator. i also like this idea, although i have to admit that im very nervous about this because i've never had anything inside of me larger thank a couple of fingers or a tampon. sooo, if i were to buy a vibrator what kind? size? etc should i get? also where can I buy one online that ships in a discrete plain box? i would love to hear any other thoughts or suggestions you might have too. i'm sure I will have a lot more questions also, so hopefully this community can help me with those as well :) 20 French Kiss | Frenching?

Recommendations [04 Dec 2009|11:26pm] sextips [bangteenagers] I'm in a fairly long-distance relationship whilst I'm in uni. However, I'll be going home for Christmas soon. Out of curiosity.. 1. What is something sexually fun you've newly discovered with your partner? 2. What is your fail-safe, always exciting act/position/game/tip? Just curious, so I can have some new suggestions to possibly try out with boy. Thanks! 18 French Kiss | Frenching?

skin softness after sex? [04 Dec 2009|03:04pm] sextips [internet_ink] I checked the memories and didn't find anything about skin. My s/o and I had really great sex last night, but I didn't quite finish. After the fact, we noticed that my skin was noticeably softer and smoother than it was before, and it lasted for several hours. I doubt there's anything wrong, but has anyone experienced this before, or know why it happens? I'm really curious, mostly because I wish it'd stick around, lol. Thanks in advance! 9 French Kiss | Frenching?

Say it and Share it! [03 Dec 2009|11:18am] sextips [lang_ea] Question: What's your favorite time period that you find really sexy? The Iron Age era? Roman era? The Middle Ages? The Rennaissance? Or even the era of musketeers, wimmin of giant wigs and panniers, or men in top hats? 35 French Kiss | Frenching?

We Vibe [02 Dec 2009|08:37pm] sextips [dotcomartguy] ( You are about to view content that may not be appropriate for minors. ) 8 French Kiss | Frenching?

Placebo Icons [02 Dec 2009|06:41pm] brian_molko [taras_song] [ music | Placebo - English Summer Rain | Powered by Last.fm ] Rules: - blanks are not bases - credit please - no hotlinking - comments are welcome 01-28 Placebo teasers the rest HERE @ taras_song Frenching?

the ticklish penis, and what to do about it. [01 Dec 2009|10:00am] sextips [natane] the guy i am currently with has a ticklish penis/groin area. in the sense that during oral, he's likely to start giggling randomly and grab my head and pull me off. PIV isn't a problem, but i can tickle him with my hand too sometimes. i've tried rougher touches/licks/sucking, but he enjoys the gentle ones (which then make him giggle and pull my head off/grab my hand). it's definitely ticklish, as opposed to over-sensation, if that makes sense. he's ticklish there before orgasm, after, hard, soft, through underwear, etc. this is, in fact, the only part of his body that he can always be tickled on, leaving me (ticklish all over) at a severe disadvantage. i actually don't mind it, so i guess i'm not really posting with a problem. just looking for similar stories/opinions. 4 French Kiss | Frenching?

Question [01 Dec 2009|03:00pm] sextips [kinky_carter] Looking for some tips. First off does anyone know where I can find a catholic school girl uniform, you know those guys that love 'em. And where can I find a aphrodisiac that actually works? I tried this Spanish fly that I ordered from Amazon.com and it did nothing for me. 11 French Kiss | Frenching?

enemas [30 Nov 2009|06:50pm] sextips [lisaownsall] I know that a lot of people use enemas prior to having anal sex to remove feces. I have never used one before but plan on having anal sex (for my 3rd time) soon, and wanted to use one. My question is; how long prior to having anal sex are you supposed to use one? an hour before? a few hours before? a day before? i want to clean myself out so it will be less messy, please help! thank you :) 16 French Kiss | Frenching?

Relationship/Sex advice? [30 Nov 2009|12:57am] sextips [leedlekay] Hi there, I looked through the memories a bit and couldn't really find anything that could explain what I'm going through so...here goes. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 and half years and we've been sexually active with each other for 2 years. We are very close and our sex life is great--up until recent. When we first started having sex we were both virgins and he had difficulty staying hard 100% of the time, which was okay because he was new to it. After a while we got over that bridge and started learning how to please one another. We finally got the hang of it and sex was amazing. In the past five months, we found the right position for us to both orgasm during PIV sex, so that is what we have been doing a lot of. Now, my question: Two nights ago, his parents were out of town and we had the house to ourselves. I made no insinuations to have sex but figured we would probably end up doing it. He then came onto me and we had sex for less than 3 minutes until he became soft like he used to when we first started dating. He got embarrassed and told me that he felt pressured by me to have sex with him. I assume this is because I have a higher sex drive than he does. I like to have sex about 4-5 times a week with him. I let it go and tried to forget about. Well the next night we got into foreplay (which I need a lot of to really get into it) and he could not get an erection. He was hard up until I started giving him a BJ and then he just lost it and tried to force having sex with me. He pretty much blamed it on the fact that I need a lot of foreplay. As he was driving me home he told me he didn't want to have sex with me until he 'was ready.' I feel almost hurt because I want to please my boyfriend and obviously what I'm doing is not working. Do you think maybe something could be up? Like he's not interested? A couple months ago he started flirting with another girl and I found out...could that have something to do with it? I just simply don't understand because we've had two awesome years of sex and all of a sudden he thinks our sex is 'too boring' and that he's 'not ready.' Does that make any sense to any of you? I would like to figure this out and any advice is greatly appreciated! 25 French Kiss | Frenching?

[27 Nov 2009|11:54pm] sextips [tiamarie33] I'm in a sexual relationship with a guy with whom I have phenomenal sexual chemistry with. He is very giving and always satisfies me. He pulls my hair when I ask him too, and always asks me what I want. I would like for him to hold me down sometimes, and slap me in the face a little, but I am terrified he might think that it's strange or a turnoff. Do you think I should just ask him to? How would I go about this?? 15 French Kiss | Frenching?

[27 Nov 2009|08:29am] sextips [goodeyessniper] Are there any tips or tricks to not having cum just..leak out of my vagina when my boyfriend comes in me? It always gets on the bed or I end up queefing or something equally unsexy. 36 French Kiss | Frenching?

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